From Doubt to Determination: Overcoming Self-Doubt as an Adult Learner
Fordham Institute Inc. • April 10, 2025
Starting something new isn’t always easy—especially when you’re doing it as an adult. Whether you're returning to school after years away, switching careers, or beginning a training program like those offered at Fordham Institute Inc., it’s common to feel a wave of uncertainty. You might wonder: Am I too old? Can I really do this? Will I succeed?
If you’ve had these thoughts, you're not alone. Self-doubt is a natural part of growth, but it doesn't have to hold you back.
A New Chapter, Not a Setback
Many adult learners carry the weight of comparison—looking at younger students or people who seem to have it all figured out. But here’s the truth: your journey is valid, and your life experience is a strength, not a weakness. Whether you're pursuing a healthcare certification or any other path, remember that determination often matters more than where you start.
Common Myths Adult Learners Face
Myth 1: "I’m too old to learn something new."
Learning has no expiration date. The brain is capable of growing and adapting at any age. Your maturity, discipline, and life experience actually give you an advantage.
Myth 2: "I’ve failed before, so I’ll probably fail again."
Past setbacks don’t define your future. Every challenge you’ve overcome has prepared you for this moment. Now, you're ready to succeed with fresh perspective and resilience.
Myth 3: "I can’t balance school with everything else in my life."
It won’t be easy—but it is possible. With structure, support, and determination, you can absolutely juggle your responsibilities and still achieve your goals.
Strategies to Build Confidence and Stay Motivated
- Set small, achievable goals. Progress builds confidence. Celebrate every win, no matter how small.
- Surround yourself with support. Find a mentor, join a study group, or lean on peers who understand your journey.
- Practice positive self-talk. Challenge negative thoughts with affirmations like, "I am capable," and "I am learning and growing every day."
- Visualize success. Picture yourself in your scrubs, diploma in hand, or working in the field you love. Let that vision fuel you.
You Belong Here
At Fordham Institute Inc., we know that many of our students are adult learners balancing families, jobs, and personal challenges. That’s why we create a supportive, flexible environment designed to help you thrive—not just academically, but personally.
Don’t let doubt be louder than your dreams. Your time is now.
Ready to take the leap with confidence? Reach out to Fordham Institute Inc. today and learn how we can help you take the next step in your journey with purpose and pride.
Caregiving takes strength—not just emotionally, but physically too. Whether you're assisting with mobility, standing for long periods, or moving equipment, your body is constantly working. As a Home Health Aide (HHA) or Certified Nursing Assistant (CNA), taking care of your own physical health is just as important as caring for your clients. At Fordham Institute Inc., we encourage our students and graduates to build wellness into their routines. One of the simplest and most effective ways? Stretching. Even a few minutes a day can ease tension, prevent soreness, and help you feel refreshed for your next shift. Why Stretching Matters for Caregivers Reduces muscle fatigue and soreness Improves posture (especially important if you're on your feet all day) Increases flexibility and mobility Helps prevent workplace injuries Gives you a mental reset and stress relief You don’t need a gym or fancy equipment—just a quiet space and a few minutes. Easy Stretches to Try After Work (Always listen to your body. If something hurts, ease up or stop.) 1. Neck & Shoulder Roll Release tension from looking down or carrying items. Gently roll your shoulders backward 5 times, then forward. Drop your chin to your chest and slowly roll your head side to side. 2. Upper Back Stretch Perfect after long hours of standing. Clasp your hands in front of you, round your shoulders, and push forward. Feel the stretch between your shoulder blades. Hold for 20 seconds. 3. Standing Hamstring Stretch Eases tightness in the legs. Place one foot forward with the heel on the ground, toes up. Lean slightly forward from the hips (not your back) until you feel the stretch. Switch sides. 4. Calf Stretch Helps if you’ve been walking or lifting all day. Stand facing a wall. Step one foot back, heel flat on the floor. Bend the front knee and press into the wall until you feel a stretch in the back leg. 5. Foot Roll (Bonus Tip) Use a tennis ball or water bottle to roll under your feet. Great for tired arches and keeping foot muscles healthy. Tips to Make It a Habit Stretch right after your shift or shower Set a phone reminder Keep a yoga mat or towel nearby Even 5 minutes makes a difference! Your Body Deserves Care Too As an HHA or CNA, you're constantly giving—lifting others, standing strong, and walking many steps in a day. Stretching is a small act of self-care that helps you stay well and strong for the important work you do. 🌐 Visit www.FordhamInstitute.com to explore upcoming HHA and CNA training classes. Because when you feel good, you care better—and that starts with caring for yourself.
Caregiving is powerful work—but let’s be honest, it can also be exhausting. Whether you’re a Certified Nursing Assistant (CNA) or Home Health Aide (HHA), the long hours, emotional energy, and constant responsibilities can sometimes lead to burnout. It’s more common than you think—and nothing to be ashamed of. At Fordham Institute Inc., we believe in supporting the whole caregiver, not just the professional. If you’re feeling drained, here’s how to recognize burnout and take steps to reset before it overwhelms you. 1. Recognize the Signs Early Burnout isn’t just “feeling tired.” Some early red flags include: Constant fatigue, even after resting Dreading your shift Feeling emotionally numb or irritated Loss of motivation or focus Physical symptoms like headaches or stomach issues If this sounds familiar, your body and mind are asking for a pause—not a breakdown. 2. Take a Self-Check Moment Ask yourself: When was the last time I did something just for me? Am I saying yes too often when I want to say no? Do I feel supported—or stretched too thin? Self-awareness is the first step to self-care. 3. Find Micro-Moments to Reset You may not have time for a full day off, but even small breaks matter: Step outside for 3 minutes and breathe Listen to a calming song on the way to work Journal a few sentences before bed Enjoy your meal without distractions Burnout grows in silence. Rest grows in moments. 4. Talk to Someone You don’t have to hold it all in. Speak to a trusted coworker, friend, or counselor. Just sharing what you’re feeling can release pressure and remind you that you’re not alone. You can be strong and still need support. Both can be true. 5. Reconnect With Your “Why” When burnout creeps in, remind yourself why you started. Maybe it was to help others, create a better future, or build confidence. Reconnecting with your purpose can help reignite your passion—even if it’s just a flicker at first. 6. Know That It’s Okay to Take Breaks Breaks aren’t a luxury—they’re necessary. Whether it’s a day off, a nap, or a quiet evening without answering your phone, allow yourself to rest. You don’t have to earn it. You need it. You Deserve to Feel Good Too Caregiving is a profession of heart, but your heart needs care too. If you're feeling burnt out, it's not weakness—it's a signal that you're human. And at Fordham Institute Inc., we stand behind every HHA and CNA who gives so much of themselves each day. 📞 If you're looking to begin or refresh your caregiving journey, call 718-480-1804 You give care. You deserve care. Never forget that.
As a Home Health Aide (HHA) or Certified Nursing Assistant (CNA), your day starts early—and often moves fast. You’re responsible for others’ well-being, safety, and comfort. But before you step into that important role, it’s just as important to take care of yourself. At Fordham Institute Inc., we believe that how you start your morning can shape how the rest of your day unfolds. Even if you only have 15 minutes before your shift, you can create a routine that sets the tone for a calm, confident, and productive day. 1. Wake Up 15 Minutes Earlier (Just for You) Even if you already wake up early, giving yourself just 15 quiet minutes—before the rush—can make a big difference. Use this time for something grounding: Stretching Deep breathing Listening to music Saying a quick affirmation (“Today, I am calm and capable.”) Starting your day in peace helps you carry that peace into someone else’s. 2. Hydrate Before You Caffeinate Before you reach for your coffee or tea, drink a glass of water. Overnight, your body becomes dehydrated, and water helps wake up your brain, improve digestion, and boost your energy naturally. Tip: Add lemon or cucumber slices for a refreshing boost! 3. Eat Something Nourishing Long shifts require fuel. You don’t need a fancy breakfast—just something that gives you lasting energy and avoids sugar crashes. Try: A boiled egg and whole grain toast Oatmeal with fruit Greek yogurt with nuts Even a quick smoothie can give you the nutrients your body needs to take care of others. 4. Pack Smart the Night Before If you’re rushing in the morning, it’s easy to forget things. Pack your work bag at night with: ID badge and keys Reusable water bottle Healthy snacks Hand lotion or sanitizer Comfortable shoes (if not already worn) Having everything ready saves you time and stress. 5. Set an Intention for the Day Before heading out, take a deep breath and choose a thought to carry with you: “I will do my best today.” “My work matters.” “I am calm, prepared, and present.” This mental reset helps you walk into your shift with purpose and confidence. A Strong Morning Makes a Stronger You You take care of others all day long—but your well-being matters too. By creating a morning routine that centers you, you’ll find yourself feeling more balanced, less rushed, and better equipped to give the care your clients deserve. 📞 Ready to start your caregiving journey with confidence? Call 718-480-1804 to learn more about our HHA and CNA classes. Because when caregivers feel strong, supported, and centered—everyone benefits.